I have been on dates where men have told me" you are fine but if you had _____ you'd be perfect". I watch Real housewives of orange county and I am like " really?". These men look like crap with women half their ages. Then they abuse them verbally about their looks forcing them to get breast implants, lip injections, ...i mean these women are 99% plastic. I feel so sorry for them because this is no way to live. Whatever happen to men appreciating a woman the way she is, instead of transforming her into a plastic/botox barbie. Men judge women harshly on how the look, the size of their breasts, etc.
If I told a man , sorry I you're not my type because your penis is smal, I'd be a whore. Most women will accept a man's physical flaws if he is a nice guy and treats her good. Sometimes the shallowness of men , disgusts me. How do you feel?
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Who says that's okay of anyone?
First of all, most of what you see on TV is NOT NOT NOT real! Producers purposely pick out the most drama-filled people and force them together, and then constantly manipulate the situation to keep them stirred up. They will hire obnoxious guys and instruct them to be even more obnoxious, because it keeps folks like you interested and that keeps ratings up.
But you need to learn to be VERY skeptical of anything you see in the media. You never know what's going on off-camera or behind the scenes, but most of the time, stuff IS going on. Have you ever seen video that you know has been edited to make people say things they didn't actually say? That kind of thing happens FAR more often than you realize; it isn't just Michael Moore who does it.
No, it's not okay for men or women to be shallow, and the fact that we as society allow it as much as we do, and don't set better examples for our kids, is really sad. But don't use TV as the example, because so much of that is fake.0