Whenever I'm with this girl and we're taking a picture she will slouch a little or if she's standing on something she'll move down and say "Oh wait I'm gonna look taller than you." We're both the same exact height at like the 5'9-5'10ish area. "I think she thinks I'm insecure with my height when really I don't care because I know I'm still growing. Even I'm done I'm comfortable with my body. Why would she care about making me look taller though?
Haha she was looking for flats and I asked her why and she said because she would be taller than me. I told her if she wanted to wear heels she could because I said I don't care
So she says OK, but then asks how tall my friends are and their dates. And I said they're all the exact same height as me and the girls will probably be shorter. She decided she's going to stick to flats because she doesn't want to look taller than everyone else in the picture. I still insisted that she wear whatever she wanted to wear. She told me she appreciated that, but she doesn't want to look freakishly tall compared to everyone else, so I stopped insisting and just said ok.
I'm not insecure with myself because I know I'm still growing.
Maybe it's more her who thinks she's too tall. Usually guys don't really like the girl to be too tall. Maybe she's had a crush or a boyfriend who was smaller than her and that led to a break-up from him ? How about asking ? It's quite petty a subject.