I have the body type of a bouncer at a club.
Here's a pic: link
I've always been self conscious about this but I want to know what you ladies have to say. I have feelings for a girl that is on the smaller side so would us dating be awkward? I'm a very outgoing and outspoken person. I'm athletic and am a musician. I've played the guitar for 7 years and have been singing since I watched my first Disney movie. Haha
I've never felt this way about a girl and to be honest, it makes me kind of nervous. I've had maybe 6-7 girlfriends but none of those relationships started with me feeling the way I do with this girl.
Okay so knowing that, what should my next step be?
Most Helpful Girl
Appearance means very little to me. Someone can be "my type" or be an average body type, and they can be ugly in my eyes if they have no personality.
Yes, I would date someone who is a little bit on the heavy side if their personality clicked with mine. There are some women that won't though. Everyone is different and you won't get just one answer on your question. Hopefully the girl can see past a few extra lbs and give you a shot.1