i have super dark skin, light brown eyes and really really white skin. like the palest shade of makeup that cosmetic companies make is usually too dark for me lol. but I like my fair skin, there's a reason why the term is "fairest of them all" not "most bronzed of them all" !
Depends on who ya ask. Though I'm a white guy, a prefer black women, so apparently, pale isn't my thing. If I had a choice of a pale or tan white woman, I don't think I would have a preference. One seems as good as the other to me.
Pale is just fine. Skin color does not matter at all. I think girls that are tan look fake. Your skin color just natural and that is what is sexy. I bet you are very beautiful with your blond hair and blue eyes.
Haha well I'm very very pale also, its hard to find sheer foundation that's as light as I am! I use the lightest MAC foundation they make and its still too dark. Its harder for me, though, because I have dark - almost black - hair and gray eyes and red lips. I got the nickname Snow White because of it! I think pale looks wonderful, of course I have quite the bias haha.
well, may I suggest black and white photos? that's what I do.. lol I know how you feel.. you look at other girls that are tan and wish you were that way.. or I do atleast.. it can really damage ur self-esteem when somone teases you a/b ur skin color, especially if you're not happy with it.. oh and I've tried self-tanning and I don't like the smell it gives off.. eww lol.. but I don't care any more, it's the way God made me, I'm irish and I'm proud of it.. I am me and nobody else, besides, there is more to the person than meets the eye...
i am the same exact way! my ex never liked me the way I was, he was always insinuating that I needed to get in the tanning bed and always compared me to other tan girls in my school.. because of him, it has really lowered my confidence and it makes me feel self concious every time I wear my bikini.. but don't change just because someone don't like you the way you are, because nobody's perfect..
be happy for who you are ..im tan and I'm not wishin I was pale but if you wanna tone down the paleness so you can take pics in the sun I recommend light soft colors makeup or clothes but its up 2 you be happy who you r.