Take so long to reply back to your girlfriends messages/not reply back the same day?
Just wondering why you do this when you say to your girlfriend that you care about her, like her a lot etc.
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Guys who operate more logically are more likely to have rational resolutions to a variety of issues. For this reason, time for guys may seem to pass at a different rate than for girls.
As an example, a guy waiting for a girl to call him might think:
She might call me. I'd enjoy it. She might not call me. That'd be a bummer. If she really cared about me, eventually she'll get in touch with me. It's clear, the onus is on her to call. Worrying is not going to change the outcome.
A girl (or a guy who's more emotional) might think:
I wonder when he's going to call. What's taking him so long? Maybe he wants to call but he's too shy. What if he got in an accident or met some other girl?
You can easily see how time appears to pass differently depending on your anxiety level. Communicate to your boyfriend that time passes differently for the two of you so that he knows 1 of your days is 3 days (but only when you're worrying about something unsettled).2