How could you not? being judged isn't fun and shouldn't be oh just deal because you knew what it was some people just like it. They would see your lower back tat if you bent over if your shirt was lifted up or got pulled up while moving most deff when you are naked. tongue rings are for most for sexual reasons or they just think its cool.
I still don't know why it's called a tramp stamp. My mom has a tattoo on her lower back and her rationale was that she could cover it most days but could easily show it to people if they asked or expose it when she was in a bathing suit. I don't see what's trampy about it.
As for the tongue ring, its use in oral sex can connect it with the trampy label. However, a tongue ring is easily concealable (unlike a facial piercing), so it's a favorite for people who technically can't have piercings at work but want a piercing of some sort.
I'm far from a trampy girl, but I'd love to get my tongue pierced just so I could put on a vibrating tongue ring and give my man heaven when I suck out his juices and tenderly caress his manly glory.
I wouldn't want a tramp stamp just because I think it's an awkward place for a tattoo. When I'm riding my man from the back, I don't know I don't want my tattoo to be in his face. Tattoos can take away from the natural, biological beauty of a woman's body. I think that curve, that sexy dip in my back right above my ass is very sexy and I wouldn't want it to be covered up with a tramp stamp.
I was going to get my tongue pierced because I like the way they look and I can think of so many wonderful ways it could make a guy feel good while kissing. But the idea of it is nasty just because you have so much bacteria in your mouth, you can't really clean out the piercing (unless you love pain) and I don't know something about it just irks the germaphobe in me.