The thing I've notice is, after I meet a guy, I tend to develop a tiny crush on him. It happens with maybe 80% of the guys I meet. Usually they're just fun to be around. But the crush is really insignificant and I get over it rather quickly.
The only times the crush turns to attraction is if I think the guy is interested in me. Then I start to notice the way he looks more. If his personality is amazing, then yeah, I've fallen pretty hard at this point. By amazing, I mean funny and witty and sweet and thoughtful. You know, the stuff Prince Charming is made out of. And I agree with what you've said. Once you've fallen for their personality, they look even better.
If a guy I meet is interested in me, but I didn't develop that initial crush on him for some reason, then I just can't find myself attracted to him.
Humor,good heart,kindness,high sex drive,smartness.I don't need a HOT or RICH perfect fake somebody.
i do care about their looks. if there is no physical attraction then to me you might as well just be friends. of course personality. even if he is fine as hell if his personality's not right or we just don't click then I won't be into him.