If you just put it all back in a hairband without any loose bits around your face, then your boyfriend said in a light-hearted way that it doesn't look as good, and asked a few times for you to put your hair down?
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We don't care THAT much about how a woman fixes her hair in that way.
But if we ask you to do something and you refuse something so small we think you're not doing it out of spite and that's irritating.
Its best to be open with him and either do it because he like it, and if you don't like it and prefer it the other way then tell him.
Otherwise we think you're just not doing it to be a bitch.