Maybe it's because I'm attracted to feminine girls and fear rejection but..don't say man up and try talking to them because well, I have in the past and I've gotten shot down. I don't care that I got shot down because at least I tried, right? well..how come some women who dress this way, are just so intimidating to the point that I can't even go up to them?
Why are girls who dress so "feminine", so intimidating
What Girls Said 4
this isn't true in all cases, but generally feminine girls who really care for their appearance are a bit harsher when it comes to turning down guys, simply because they get asked out more than an average girl. feminine = prettier than average = getting asked out A LOT = tons of guys to choose from, so you have very little chance... I speak from experience :P maybe just try to be friends frist(: hope that helps!2
I think guys have only approached me when I had jeans on but I almost never skirts or dresses unless its a special day or event..maybe you just like tomboys?0
I dress prettily, never get approached. Now I know why. :D0
I guess that's why I dress less girly..people tell me I'm so girlie but I don't thinnk I am0
What Guys Said 2
Because they try really really hard to look accessssible only to guys with hot cars and money to spend on them...thats the signal they try really hard to put out. So they are already angry with you just because you come up to them on your bike.
The aren't going to change, but lke you, I enjoy flirting with them once in a while, knowing they'll be ticked off just because I approached them! Sort of fun to watch them try to think of put-downs etc. They aren't too literate so it's hard for them to think of witty remarks.1
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