I am REALLY tired of this.
I am not unattractive.
I am intelligent.
I try to be nice.
I try to be funny.
I like adventure.
I like to cook.
I am different from most guys...
I don't get it! I am 23 and I am too old to have these problems. :/
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You sound great :) Sometimes people just don't click. If she doesn't feel like she should be with you, it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. Maybe you just have different interests or different goals in life. Or maybe she's interested in someone else. Just think, would it be better if she tried to be with you because you're great guy, even though she isn't that interested, only to later find out she doesn't want to be with you and break up (which would hurt a lot more) or just let you know she's not interested and let you move on?
This happened to a friend of mine. He was all the things you listed and just couldn't get the girl he wanted. Some time ago, he told me he met another girl at a work lunch and they've been together for a month now: only proves what I always told him, there was nothing wrong with him, he just didn't happen to meet the right girl. But now he's in a happy relationship and it will happen for you too when the time comes! Just be yourself and try to meet new people. Your time will come :) good luck!0