I usually do wear skirts or dresses, so that apparently yesterday was the first time he saw me wearing jeans, in out 5 months long relationship.
He was like "Are you sure you wanna go out like that, shouldn't you wear a dress" I just went to visit my brother nothing formal, so I asked why I should wear a dress and he said "well girls should always wear skirts"
We got into a huge fight after that. He is not kidding that is what he believes and he does not want me to go out in any kind of pants.
I often wear sweatpants at home or when I work out (although I play field hockey and tennis, where we usually wear skirts) and he never seemed to mind that.
He didn't see at what I was so upset about. He said that I always said I didn't like pants and I don't, but I still want to be able to wear them.
Am I overreacting? What am I supposed to do with him now?
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well, that is very controlling. just because he likes it better doesn't mean you have to change. we all have our preferences. talk to him about it. tell him that if he does not let you wear pants, which is a totally irrational thing, you are going to break up because you feel like he is controlling you.3