My boyfriend has this one pair of shorts I absolutely hate & never ever want to see again--and it bothers me that he wears his hats sideways...but how do I tell him this without being a meanie? :/
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Hopcount has it right. POSITIVE reinforcement works the best.
Instead of telling him you hate those shorts, pick him out some you like, and then tell him how attractive he is to you when he wears them instead of the other ones. Do the same thing with his hat: tell him how much better he looks with it on straight.
This approach usually prevents people from getting angry and defensive, so you have much better results that way.0