I have really pale skin and I've been every hair color under the sun, I'd go for orangey/ginger but add some highlights and low lights to avoid looking too washed out. The first link didn't work for me, despite several tries however I do like the second link, quite a natural shade. I'd go for orange and then even if it doesn't look good, you can always put the brown one over it! Problem solved.
I think either color would look good on you. I like you have very pale skin but I'm a natural born red head. You could pull off either quite well. Personal preference I like the second link more...But that might just be because I hate the color of my hair lol and am always changing it.