So my boyfriend told me that one of his friends noticed his relationship change and clicked on me and she sent him a text saying "I never thought you'd date a fat chick" he then goes on tell me how he told her off and she's just jealous because she likes him. I know in not fat because she likes him. I know in not fat(115lbs) but I'm kinda bothered...
In all honesty I believe its his way of controlling you. If his friend really sent that then he should have told him to "f*** off" and never said a word to you. But he did tell you. From your picture you are very attractive and you say you are only 115lbs. The only reason this was said to you was to knock you down a peg. A guy who truly cares about how you feel wouldn't say this. A guy who is scared you might leave him for another guy would.
Do you know the person who actually said it? Your boyfriend might have made her up to make you lose weight and or to make him sound like a hot stud with women hanging on his sleeves. Seriously you have no idea what kinda stuff people come up with there are whole books written on this stuff. On the other hand if he told you who the girl is, then make sure to tell her off your self, bitches be bitches .
prob some sort of weird neg backhanded compliment he was trying to pull , I assume you don't have body image issue nor are you fat obviously but he gets to come off as defending your honor and he makes it seem like he has bitches trying to get all up on his d***, so he creates allure for himself in the hopes of becoming a permanent fixture in your life ; so he kills two birds with one stone if that's what he's going for
or you know it was just like an incredulous thing where he's like wow this girl called you fat she's crazy, I tell my friends when people say or do stupid stuff cause I find it funny
I think maybe he was trying to be honest and show you that he's defending you as well as show you he's not hiding anything (admitting she likes him, that he told her off, that he's not interested), etc. It was an unnecessary way to do it, and immature, but that's what I think he meant by it.
You're not fat. I had a few exs with friends that said crap like that but they were pretty skanky and didn't stand a chance with the guys so they down graded me because they suck. Honestly, he shouldn't have even told you if it was important and you didn't really need to know.
I think he was trying to be honest with you. I really don't think he was trying to make you feel bad. People get jealous. lmao. Someone once told me my fiance was at a party trying to get with a bunch of chicks one night.. when he was actually with me in bed watching movies. A total lie to try to get me to hate the one I love. I told him about it because I just thought, "Wow babe look at this really insecure guy trying to turn me against you? That would never happen." LOL people are so dumb.
lol she seriously is jealous...ive never heard anything more direct in such an immature way. if anything she made herself look horrible to clearly you but him who she likes but now she looks so insecure and mean and no guys likes that
I know for a fact that when people get jealous, they often try to make up something they think is negative about the other person to make themselves feel better. Even if you were "fat" she still has no business telling him who he should and shouldn't date.
If the friend is a girl completely disregard the comment because girls are jealous of their male friends and their go to insult is "you are fat" clearly you aren't fat, I don't know why he told you maybe he didn't want you to think there was something going on with the friend?
You are so not fat at all! I would be bothered too if somebody said that about me but bitches will be bitches. Remember in junior high when the hot guy you had a crush on had a girlfriend already and everybody who liked him called his girlfriend ugly...umm yup same example here. She's jealous that she can't have him and probably jealous that you look better than she does.