I really want to dye it an extreme black color. I'm slim, blue eyes and fair skin.
I'm sick of the tags associated with blondes and feel I would be taken more seriously from strangers. Let's be honest, society tends to judge..
So what are you thoughts? Long black hair, really blue eyes and fair skin?
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My question to you is, why are you dying your hair black really? Do you think you will look good or do you feel as if you will be less brutally judged for being blonde?
I am sure you have heard this time and time again, but do NOT change yourself to conform to stupid baseless standards set by a superficial society. If anything has to change, its the stereotype itself. And I'm a Pakistani so trust me I know all about it. Do you know I live in a cave and ride my camel to school?
If I were you, I'd consider this an incentive to do and be better. For instance, if a guy judges you for being blond and no who you are as a person, Honestly, you should be grateful your hair got you to realize how shallow he is. Likewise, I'd make it a mission to Prove to everyone how smart I am. I remember watching a video of this blond who was a topper at Harvard.
My point is, that you will never achieve anything in this world if you are not proud to be who you are, especially if you have done no wrong. If this act has the slightest to do with what people think, please don't do it. I am into painting and many people for some odd reason I don't care about, think its gay. I've had attention from gay people too who have appreciated my craft and supported me so much. And being hetero, I'm not bitter about it, I'm proud of how this stereotype has been a litmus test in showing me who truly values me for who I am, and giving me genuine loving friends. I celebrate that and so should you.
I hope you if anything, just contemplate the repercussion of this act may you decide to go with it.0