Ok the question is basically in the title. Would you ever date someone who has the greatest personality you can ask for but who you do not feel one bit physical attraction to? I always hear women say they only go for personalities, but recently a girl I knew couldn't date this guy (not me before you ask lol) because she could not find him one bit physically attractive! I tried to persuade her but she just couldn't! Yet he treated her like a princess! So could you date someone like this?
- Yes, I can quiet happily date someone who is completely physically unattractiveVote A
- Yes, I can date someone who is not that attractive but has some physical attractionVote B
- No I can only date someone who I have full physical attraction toVote C
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I couldn't date someone who is physically unattractive to me, but I could date someone I didn't find THAT attractive. Personality is the most important, and for the most cases makes a guy MORE attractive in my eyes, but it doesn't make up for everything. If he physically repulses me, then there's nothing that can make up for that.
Physicality is a big part of a relationship, so whilst he doesn't need to be an adonis, there needs to be some level of attraction to him otherwise it's just not going to work.
When I say I go for personality - it means I wouldn't date a guy who has a bad personality, not that I want to date every guy who has a good one. Personality is very important, but there are other factors too, chemistry, and physical attraction are necessary.4