Ok my wife has brought up several times that she wants a mommy makeover. I just kind of blew it off. Then the other night she brought up a tummy tuck. I'm thinking that would be great so I said do you want to do that -- after some I don't know etc she said maybe. Then the next night she says do you want me to. (I think yea but this could be bad) so I say only if you want to. She says I'm good I don't think I look that bad -- but I will if you want me to. I don't know where to start though. Do you want me to? What do I say. I feel like whatever I do I lose here
listen. if you want her to do this, don't tell her that, you need to play a game called "look at me, I'm working out every day, my fat is going down, my muscles are building up, I have a great looking six pack."
and then when she'll see that you're taking care of your body, she will feel obligated to do something about hers.