I don't pay much attention to how hot she is, just how attracted to her I am. (since intelligence, or wit, is the biggest turn-on for me, often technically less hot girls are more attractive to me)
As for the bonus^^ I nevervask girls out directly, they either invite me or I use more imaginative language. But if getting shot down thrice, she'd have to be both really smart and interresting (myserious, having something to say)
I can have any woman I want. 1-10 so I don't even think about how 'hot ' she is. I'm interested in how compatible we are, what her attitudes are, how she treats people and animals and how she feels about family, friends, career and whether or not she's self assured and confident.
I'd consider myself an 8 in the physical dept. and a 10 when it comes to the things I mentioned that I find important.
bonus? I wouldn't waste my time asking a girl out 3 or more times, she and I both know by that time that she has too high an opinion of herself, unless she's asked for/given me a rain check due to an extremely hectic schedule. Life's too short to live in dreams.
no but I might ask myself if she's actually be interested in me or does she allready have a boyfriend anyways . I wouldn't be affaird to talk to her , I've meet a lot of really good looking girls over the years when at college or various jobs . but usually a 10 /10 has higher standards in guys but not always
10/10? Not intimidated at all. The fact that I know I couldn't ever get a 10/10 means I don't even view them in a sexual way. They are just another person. I wouldn't ask a girl out more than once; Either she's playing games and she's an immature bitch, or she isn't interested.