My husband says I'm the only beautiful and attractive woman for him. He says he found other women attractive before me,but after he had feelings for me he only has eyes for me.His friends and some of my relatives also trust that he is telling the truth.But in fact I can't trust him.I've never seen him commenting on any women or looking at any women.And his friends say he never comments on women and he never looks at them.Is it possible?I've made a search on the net and I've found some men telling the same things.They say they only find their partner beautiful.I've also searched about demi-sexuality and it describes my husband and people like him.What do you think?
Having strong emotional attachments really do make us to see only that person as extremely attractive so no-one else compares.
It's a real thing not just some fairy-tale myth without substance.
The science behind it lies in evolution, a shift from polygamy to monogamy. Polygamy means very high mortality rates, while in monogamy the survival rate for the whole family and kids is incomparably better.
You need to calm yourself down and accept this simple truth, also if he would be only telling that then you could have a reason to question but his actions support it.
if we find our girlfriends to be very beautiful, and we love them, we definitely don't look at other girls the same way. that doesn't mean we don't acknowledge the hotness of another girl if we see them, but it's different. we don't actually want them and our girlfriends shouldn't feel threatened by it
...wow. You actually believe such a stupid concept? What, his desires are supposed to disappear because he married you? Not saying he's cheating, saying he's just in love with you and wants to make you feel special, like any good man would do with his gal. Any guy that says he doesn't find anyone other than his wife beautiful is lying.
No, but a guy can find his girlfriend more attractive than other girls
Well, sort of. It doesn't work exactly like you're thinking.
I'm in love with my girlfriend. I've never loved anyone so much. I think she's beautiful, she thinks I'm crazy. Do I find other women attractive? Yes. Of course I do. But while I might find other women attractive, I'm not actively attracted -to- them, if that makes any sense.
It's possible. When I have had deep feelings for someone other women just didn't appeal to me. Sure I would think some were attractive & what-not but wouldn't compare to the one I felt for. That's how I could tell when I really liked a girl. Plus it's how I could tell when I I've moved on from someone also.