I have a tattoo on the left side of my back it's not small but not huge either. I love it. It's very artistic and I personally think the way it's placed emphasizes the curve of my back. It's Thai inspired and just very me. I have no regrets about getting it but I do wonder what's going through a guy's head the first time they see a "hidden" tattoo like mine. I don't take dating lightly AT ALL and if I let a guy even get that far I'd have to be pretty involved with him emotionally hence my nervousness. It would hurt me a lot to get a negative reaction so I wonder what the general consensus is?
I just wanted to point out that this is NOT a tramp stamp.
If she never told me about it before, I would be disappointed. I don't find tattoos attractive. But if we were pretty involved it would probably mean I really care about her and it wouldn't be that big of a deal.