I don't understand. when I was scrawny and thin 6 months ago, girls were a lot more friendly to me and now that I'm fit because I started working out and work a hard labor job, I can barely get two words out of girls.
Just so you know, my face is nice, I've had girls tell me to my face that I'm cute or hot so it can't be because I'm ugly. And I'm not like steroid big, more like swimmer body now.
Should I just go back to being thin?
look my approach is fine, I can get girls in that manner if I need to, but I'm talking more about normal social interactions. like work or going to the store. There is a reason why I put this in behavior and NOT flirting. I'm just asking if it would be easier on me in general social situations to just lose the muscle.
I try very hard not to be a d-bag and at work I find that if I wear 2xl shirts people are just nicer
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If you had listened to the advice on this board (if you had been a member) many people would have told you that working on being a buff musculature type can be counter-productive. It can be off putting to girls, even though they can find you attractive.
Ironically, you need to be even better at your people skills than the thin guys. You have to really excell at putting the girl at ease, and making her able to relax around you.1