I have been thinking of getting a nose job,I have a flat and broad nose bridge ,then big nose,I'm an Asian,but my other siblings they are beautiful I'm the only one that is not that flattering enough. My parents aren't that excited about this because by doing this as if I'm changing whatever God has given me and being an ungrateful human,so before I do any further research or anything I really need advice or opinions?Money is not a problem in this case.
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I feel indifferent towards anyone who wants to get plastic surgery. It's their business. Living in a world where your looks play such a big role I can't blame anyone for feeling the pressure. Some people won't understand that because they either don't see looks as top priority or they don't have self confidence/ self accepting issues. Don't let anyone make you believe that plastic surgery is a dirty word. Plastic surgery has improved so much and if your doctor does it well then no one will even notice. Reading from the guys's comments it's almost like they assume they would be able to tell whether it has been modified or not and whether it's fake or not but what they don't realize is that they most probably wouldn't have even known in the first place what went down if it was done properly. There are definitely a lot more people who has had it than you would ever imagine. It's not like you get one thing done and suddenly your entire face looks like some kinda disaster and now you have fakeness written all over you. That's nonsense.
Secondly you have to do what will make YOU happy. You know how you feel about yourself and how you'd imagine you'd feel afterward. It's really a personal matter that no one can judge you on because only you know how much you want it and how much it's bothering you. If you can in all honesty say that you feel like your appearance is standing in the way of you living life with happiness then I'd say go for it. Just make sure that you don't fall into the trap by thinking that adjusting that your entire life will change. That's unrealistic but if plastic surgery can make you wake up every morning and make you feel more happier than I see in no way how that's wrong.
Being Christian I can tell you that I think God has nothing to do with this. Yes He made you a certain way but God also doesn't want you to feel miserable all the time that keeps you from living the life He wants you to live. Society changes. The times we live in have changed and sometimes adjustments are going to have to be made. In the Bible there's seldom referenced to appearance. I sort of see that as a sign that God doesn't play the emphasis on your looks but rather at your heart which makes perfect sense. God doesn't care about how you look but what's inside because that's what means the most to Him. So in other words, if you want to get a nose job then I'm really sure God is not going to hold such a thing against you. Besides, people get nose jobs who have breathing problems as well. Is that considered wrong too? I don't think so. It's called medical advancement and new technology which can better our quality of life.1