I've had so many people that get the wrong impression and judge me as snobby. It's annoying because a lot of people don't want to get to know me for who I am. I'm glad I have friends that see through that, though. It probably doesn't help that I can be shy/reserved at times either because that can also be perceived as being stuck up. Plus I feel super self conscious because I'm gawked at a lot of the time, too. This one chick from my class acted like she hated me for no reason because I wasn't super talkative (I probably looked stuck up because of shyness). Also, some people perceive that you are a social butterfly because of looks. Once I was giving a presentation with my friend and this girl had a really pissed off face and was staring me down for the whole thing. She would also roll her eyes at me for no reason. I was a bit unnerved by that. Some guys just want to hook up too instead of being friends or assume that you're b*tchy. I just want people to like me for me and not how I look.
Not really. Why would it be a disadvantage. Hot people aren't that concerned with what others think of them because most people like them since they're hot. I don't see how it could deter me from anything... maybe I intimidate people more but that's not my problem haha.
Yeah people think an attractive girl is included but not limited to the following: stuck up/snobby, slutty, hard to make friends, we get more haters no matter how nice you are, attracting gross dudes, people don't usually think we can be smart(stigmas and stereotypes), hard to get a boyfriend that you may actually want/like, sometimes people kind of stalk. Do I wish I wasn't? I never really thought I was but other people do(Especially if they know my age). But I know I still have some flaws so I don't really think it matters.
DISCLAIMER: The following answer is based on my observations.
I have a friend named Louisa. Louisa may as well be a Greek Goddess. Most beautiful girl I have ever seen, and the most insecure. You'd never know it if you weren't besties, but it's definitely there.
Guys talk about her like she's a piece of meat (they don't care that she has a 94% average). She's just this beautiful face and body that is some lofty ideal for them to strive for. She has never had a boyfriend. She goes on lots of dates (she'll give anyone a chance), but it's usually obvious after the first date that what they want is not her brains and great personality.
She's sad, like all the time. She went to prom with a friend because guys were too afraid to ask her to prom, assuming she'd be going with some male model, someone as beautiful as herself.
Being talked to as if you were stupid before you open your mouth, having nasty cat calls while walking, people who even try things if you go out like grab body parts and don't want to take no for an answer. But to be fair I wouldn't label myself as hot, maybe only cute. Couldn't imaging what would happen to a hot girl.
I have a friend who is gorgeous and sometimes I feel bad for her, guys only see how pretty she is, they could seriously care less what she's thinking, its like they want her to be seen and not heard and girls are even worse, they treat her like sh*t, they try to pick out flaws to make her feel bad herself, they spread horrible rumors about her being a slut and a boyfriend stealer... sometimes its really not worth it.
Duck face makes us look even more stupid than we already are
Not really, no. I'm a nice person and my good friends know that. Guys hit on me with the sole intention of sleeping with me, but that's not too upsetting - I wouldn't want to date a guy like that anyway.
yes there are downsides. For one, you get sleazy guys who want to get laid or find ways to feel you up any way they can. You also get jealous girls who can't see their own beauty so they have to gnash at yours. Jealous guys who want to show you that your beauty doesn't affect him and the world is a cruel harsh place where your looks will get you no where, silly stuck up wench! (insert diabolical laugh). People who immediately think you're an awesome person for no other reason than your looks. people who stare. and stare. and stare. people who are shocked you are not perfect. never wished I were less attractive. But I have wished people saw everyone as just people regardless of looks.
If I see a very attractive girl I will make more of an effort to try to aknowledge them. But if they blow me off too chase an affliction wearing douche that I know is trash. I won't feel sorry for her if he gets her pregnant and leaves her or he treats her like a dog. Girls should really know a bad guy when they see them, most girls just see abs and are automatically blind to everything else. Thank god for the humble girls around my town!