Probably a stupid question, I just joined this site. Is there a such thing as being too muscular. I been told this on multiple occasions within this year by other girls that I am too 'big'. Even asked a friend who was a girl and she says girls like slender/ muscular but toned guys not beef cakes.
I have never had a girlfriend so physical attractions matters to me. Lifting/mma/boxing are my hobbies. I train in all three and have gained quite a bit a muscle size, 125 to 160 in weight in 3 years. I still want to look good but I don't want to give up my hobbies.
So am I supposed to just give up on what I like to do?
I put a pic on my profile, I didn't want to share it as my main pic. But really I don't see how its unattractive. I am 5'5 so could it be cause I am short. I know girls like tall men. Just so unfair. I work my butt off and still get sh*t for not looking good.
I feel like I have to sacrifice one for the other :(
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Yeah, too muscular IS a thing. Like Jonathan Horton. He's HUGE. I don't personally find it a huge turn-off, but most girls I know do. I think you're totally fine (both phrasings), although I suppose other girls could be turned off.
5'5 is rather short for me, although I'm 5'1 so I *probably* wouldn't let that be a deciding factor. I like to go for 5'8 or taller.
Don't give up your hobbies. You're most attractive when you love something, and there are girls out there who share my opinion that you look good.
Also remember that personality is a HUGE factor, even in physical attraction.1