Ok, so for you nice girls I have a question. Obviously you go out like everyone else to have fun, but since you aren't in to the "bar scene" because of the stereotype of people who go to the bars are usually looking for a one night stand, do you still go there looking for the nice guy or do you just go there to have a drink with your friends? And if you don't go there looking for the nice guy, where do you go to look for him?
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When I go to a bar, I go just looking to blow off steam and have fun with friends. I would never look for a nice guy in a bar because honestly, the bars where I am are filled with sleazy guys.
Normally I don't really look for guys, but sometimes certain guys catch my attention. I was once volunteering at an animal shelter and this sweet guy came in and adopted one of the older rescue dogs whose old owners tortured. The way he handled that dog made me melt. I could tell that guy was the real deal nice guy. We ended up dating but it didn't work out because I had to move because of work and he needed to stay where he was.
Another time I met a guy when I was just sitting in a coffee shop and he sent me over a heart shaped cookie. That was the cutest thing ever. He was another really sweet guy that would have worked out but because of certain aspects, we decided to part ways.
You can meet nice people anywhere, you just need to have a good radar these things and a good execution.0