My only critisizm (for what its worth since I'm a guy), is I get the vibe your style doesn't fit earrings. You don't have to be a punk rocker to sport earrings but dressing like a holster model sometimes doesn't fit either. Basically I get the vibe your style is a bit to clean cut for wearing earrings.
One way to combat this those is to have different types of earrings. I wear earrings and that's what I do. I have small plugs (shunk down to a 6 from 00). I have a set of plain black ones, when I'm dressed a bit rougher and casual. I also have a set of silver ones with a diamond looking stud in the middle for when I'm more formal and clean cut looking.