I'm pretty much queen bee at my school.. not being cocky just telling the truth.. there's this guy in my english class that I never really noticed before.. he is a drama nerd , but he also plays sports like football etc.. I'm very vocal and opinionated so whenever we have class discussions I'm the first to state my opinion.. I noticed that when I talk he really listens to what I have to say and seems genuinely interested in my point of view.. I've never felt that way.. and before I knew it I found myself hopelessly attracted to him.. he makes me feel so important just by listening to me.. so as the days go by I like him more and more and more.. I told my best friend who is also on the football team that I liked english class boy and he begged me to let him do some digging.. I agreed. apparently eng. boy doesn't date but we think its an excuse because a girls never asked.. anyways my friend ended up telling him that I have a HUGE crush on him and he was like oh really.. and had a huge smile on his face.. I have no idea how he feels about me.. ( he is always so nice and polite the smiling reply could just be common courtesy for him) and even if he likes me back I know he won't have the guts to ask me out! I really want to be with him! how do I get him to tell me how he feels about me ? I will ask him out but not until I know that he likes me back ! I HAVE A HUGE FEAR OF REJECTION! HELP!
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He definately has self doubt about girls. I mean he probably thinks no girls like him, so he's happy to do his own little thing and shy away from girls. In his mind he may be thinking "there is no chance she likes me as she is so popular and can have a pick of guys". He also might be thinking its a wind up as he is not exactly Mr Popular himself and he doenst wanna get hurt.
Now what you need to do is start engaging in regular chats with him, start taking interest in his hobbies and give out hints that you really do like him. I admire you for thinking beyond popularity and not looking down to people, you seem like a nice laid back girl at heart. I'm sure he likes you, once he gets beyond the self doubt stage and realises you do genuinely like him, I'm sure he;ll be your boyfriend before you know it :)1