this is a question that has begged me for a long time (and still does) am I unattractive.
First off I'm rather ugly, that's fair I can't change that. some people have said I'm ok looking, but I don't think I am due to the fact no girl has ever seen me in that way. its annoying but true. unfortunately I have to accept it. I'm considered quite funny and quite clever by friends and people alike, but I don't know I just feel unlovable lol.
my main insecurity is the fact I am a virgin in every way, no girlfriend, never kissed and well you can guess the rest. its a big insecurity cause it means no girl has ever considered me good enough for them. I mean you get some real asses who get girls easy and then you have me Mr nice guy who is considered funny and a great friend but never anything more. its not like I'm not interesting either, ok well I'm not interesting but that's not the point (im training to be a wrestler that's unusual right?) but I don't know I'm not boyfriend material, should I just accept this and move on (despite the pain)
i mean come on I can't be that bad, can i? (bloody hope not lol) but if I cam then heck gotta just move on lol.
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As a man, I can say that it's all a matter of self-confidence. You see ugly men all over who get chicks, and they are not rich. It's just a matter of confidence. Something that must be developed if you don't already have it. Since you're young, it's gonna be a problem. Since I'm now in my 30s, I have dealt with it, and come to this conclusion- you gotta make this life, especially in dating, as interesting as you possibly can. Yeah, girls may not flock to you because you're not some movie star look-alike, but you must, and I say, MUST develop confidence and a sense of well-being. Case in point: I dealt with this for years, ddnt see the girls who wanted to date me in HS, college, and so forth. But, with simply praying, and becoming a man, that all changed. It is, somewhat a "rite of passage" for all men to wanna create and develop themselves. But just don't trip over the lack of females coming your way right now. It may sound corny to you rite now, but it's true: the girls will come, be patient- I know those words don't help, but it's the truth (like how Manchester United is the best FC in the world- I know they ddnt win, but dangit... LOL) perhaps this will help you, my friend- GET INVOLVED IN OUTSIDE ACTIVITIES... Do you attend college? What's a hobby of yours? And what do you dream of besides girls? That should help you along somewhat (that's what it did for me)3