I need a bit of help where confidence is concerned. I'm not the best looking guy a, but not the worst either, but one thing that makes me somewhat insecure is my height. I know height is like, the be all and end all for women, and for a guy I'm fairly short (well below average for a guy). It's just one of the things that hurt my confidence because even with girls who are shorter than I am, it's sometimes a problem because they want a guy who is tall, not simply "taller than they are."
I know there are shorter guys out there but around here, its minimal. My main problem is competing for girls against guys who are taller than I am in larger social settings. I would say average, but there is nothing else physically about me that really compensates for the height. I've always had difficulty with dating because finding shorter girls takes time, and they still often want guys who are taller than I am haha. My main problem again is simply competing but I just want some female (or male) opinions on how I can win over a girl when I'm "competing" for her with a taller guy
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I took a look at your profile and if that's really you in the pictures, you look above average to me. You have an amazing face with warm sexy eyes that are so beautifully shiny and your lips are sexy too and totally kissable :-). I don't think you have anything to worry about! Yes, many girls like tall men, but it's hardly the be all and end all. Don't be insecure (girls love confidence more than height) and don't think of dating world as some big competition. You have a lot to offer and girls would be lucky to have you - that's the attitude I'd recommend :-). Good luck!2