I am a 19 year old male. I have a girlfriend I have been dating for 2 and a half years who I love very much. I would lay my life down for her if I had to. We know a lot of things about each other and we share many secrets. The biggest thing she knows about me is that I like wearing bras and panties and I have worn them around her and she says she is OK with it, but when I ask about it she won't give me answers I have even stopped wearing them completely but I still find myself wanting to wear them. She says I can but I know she doesn't like it and I will do anything to make her happy cause her happiness means everything to me. I am just into female clothing and she said we could have some fun with it but we never did. I don't know if I should wear them or not? Or If there is something wrong with me?
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I would suggest that you do NOT wear them around her. IF you wear it, wear it when you are NOT around her, and keep the whole situation away from her.
I say this only because, I feel like if you keep doing that your relationship will end. And you seem to be in love, and that would just end badly. Don't bring it up anymore.
I would also suggest that you don't talk about it until you and her are engaged, IF THAT EVER HAPPENS. She probably does not want to make you feel bad, because she loves you too, but think about her and her feelings, take her into consideration. Do that on your own time. Don't bring it up, like I've said before. There is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU! You take pleasure from something out of the norm, but it's fine. You should not get married without having cleared the air with her about that, or with whom ever you will marry. Until then, just don't bring it up. I have repeated myself, but its for emphasis :D
I REALLY REALLY do hope that everything works out. Life goes on :)1