what hair color would you prefer on someone like her:
my skin is also pale and more reddish than yellow
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Any kind of blond or brunette shade would probably work well. In order to pick a good shade, you're going to need to consider whether warm or cool colors look best on you (as a general rule, if silver jewelry seems to "match" your skin tone, you should go with cool colors, and likewise for gold/warm) and choose accordingly - most hair colors come in "cool" "neutral" and "warm" tones.
Personally, I like darker hair with pale skin and blue eyes, but you really do have to be moderate with how dark you go - as the other girl here said, go too dark and you will look even paler and totally washed out. You can compensate for that with lots of mascara, eyeliner, and blush to make your features pop again, but if you'd rather not change your makeup routine almost entirely (assuming you wear something different right now), stick with shades that are within a level or two of the color of your eyebrows. I'm naturally blond with pale pinkish skin and blue eyes, and I've dyed my hair multiple times to a medium cool (ash) brown and loved it. Spend some time looking through hair colors, take a friend to tell you yay or nay, and pick something you like!1