Yesterday I got a call from my aunt who is currently residing in the town and country I was born in (never raised there, moved when I was a baby). She called me because apparently she has found the most amazing/perfect girl for me. According to her, she is undoubtedly the most beautiful girl she has ever seen in her life (my aunt is 60 so that's saying something lol) and she's also a very sweet and lovely girl who she thinks I'd get along with great. It all sounded great, until she told me she was just 16! I'm 22, that's borderline pedo (actually it is). So I told my aunt hell no I will not go and meet this girl unless she's single 4 years from now. However, today I've been thinking it over and have started to sway my decision a little. My aunt has made her sound absolutely amazing and I really trust her her taste, but the girl is 16! Will it be very wrong if I go and visit her to just see what she's like. I'm not looking for a quick fix, I'm looking for the real deal.
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Sometimes we meet people and it's just not the right timing. There is nothing wrong with finding out if your personalities click. You can still be friends with her, giving her birthday gifts (keeping track of how old she just turned) and give her a proper date when she's 20. Though at 18 she is an adult in the U.S. and 16 is the age of consent in some states. Just saying.1