I am seriously scared of girls. When girls talk to me I get so nervous I just try to get the hell out of there end conversations as fast as I can LOL. I'm a pretty good looking guy, but didn't come into my looks until much later in life, so my confidence isn't quite there.
What really scares me is when they make jokes with me, they assume I'm able to keep up with them and add on to the vibe. My sense of humor just isn't good enough to keep up, and so many conversations fall flat because of it. :(
I really don't know what to do. I'm really suffering from avoidance now. I feel like I'll never be able to get a girlfriend, and I've even contemplated suicide. :( Although, I'd never actually follow through with such a thing. Is there anything I can do? I really want to just have the ability to keep up with them in conversation and be comfortable. :(
This is hurting my love life and I don't know what to do :(
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Step 1: Don't look at all girls as a potential date, look at them as equals or as friends. This can help take a lot of the edge off.
Step 2: Don't over analyze everything you say and do. I know this is hard to deal with, but not everyone will always like you. That's fine.
Step 3: Be yourself! Don't be what you think they want, be you. Because the girl that likes you for you is an awesome feeling!
Step 4: Just try. If you fail, just keep trying. There are a lot of people on the planet and not everyone knows everything that happens with everyone else.