you can be as detailed as you want. how do you know when you found her? is it usually early you guys decide who you should be with in a committed relationship?
do you guys know right away or do you take more than a year know if the girl is right for you?
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When I feel complete freedom to be myself around her, she's got soul mate potential. Looks also matter, like, her face has to be nice and she has to be within reasonable health.
It always starts when both of us make solid eye contact and we have no problem picking up each others' verbal and nonverbal cues (which leads to an enjoyable several hours of conversation). There is also a mutual physical attraction that keeps us gravitating towards each other. It feels like a natural fit.
I'm a rigid and unorthodox guy and that helps me sort out the ones with potential and ones without. Some girls get that flabbergasted look on their face and take what I say the wrong way. Some feel intimidated, others feel offended. If they have any of those reactions, the potential is not there.
No I don't believe there is only one person for us.1