First of all don't change your looks just because you'd like to attract a potential girlfriend. As long as your not looking like a ragga-muffin stay exactly how you are, be yourself. What I suggest is to try out dating websites you never know what may happen.. and don't listen to all the horror stories about dating websites.. try it out for yourself. Also voluntaring in things and getting involved is a great ways to meet a lot of people. And lets not forget pen-pals.. And yes many say don't be desperate & your love will come to you, that's true but also you're not gonna jut sit down and somehow think and wait that your love will also magically appear to you. No! that's not how it works! You're gonna be patient at the same time pursuing what you want, looking for a decent girlfriend because waiting around isn't going to get you there! What I suggest next is to travel the world.. you know go out there and meet and experience different cultures and meet wonderful people, you may never know! This world is full of endless possibilities and never say never. One important factor towards achieving all that is just to be confident and I'm sure you'll find her :) Good luck and don't give up!
Don't look for them. Often people "sense" if someone is a bit desperate and I'm afraid you'll be seen as someone quite needy for a partner. Just go hang out with friends and talk to people passing by. Just last night I met someone, we were at a bar, there were seats available next to us, two guys asked me if they were free, I said yes, we started talking et voila. Just make sure you feel good about yourself first. But ehm, you say you're "bored and lonely".
You want a girlfriend because you're bored? Well, she must feel loved when you find someone to spend time with! Maybe you could first spend some time on yourself. Get to know yourself. You're not gonna find someone who likes you just like that, you have to get to know them, they have to get to know you and there's always a chance they won't like you, but hey, that's life!
If you're not comfortable with going out and talking to girls, try online dating.
Honestly don't look. She will come when she and you are ready for it and not a minute or second later. Trust me pushing for something will not make you a happy or her. It will happen you will find someone.. Best of luck
Looking will result in you settling for less...sorry if that sounds mean, but it is true. Especially since you are feeling bored and lonely. Having those feelings and combing it with trying to find someone who likes you may make you not think as clearly about the situation as you normally might. Focus on yourself and finding hobbies and what not to help you make friends and stop the boredom. Most likely, the right girl will come along when you least expect it and are happy with yourself.
It simply depends what kind of girl you want, really. That helps you know alittle better of where to look. Second, do anything that'll help you feel a little more sure and confident about yourself and that will also help you pass your time to distract you from feeling that way. I was in the same state and what I chose was to hit the gym, I did it. Hardcore. Because it was my distraction, and later it becomes your addiction and you are gaining nothing but positive results from it. Your body changes and draws more attention from girls, you feel more happy because you destress at the gym and you suddenly feel more confident. Also just starting talking to normal people, guys or girls just to chat and get a little more sicial, it wil also help you to be able to confront any girl if you are able to confront any stranger and accustome yourself to do it, THEN it's when you try a bar, or club, or cafe or whereever you would find fit to find a girl and from there just start talking. Hope this helps.
well start by changing your looks, this hairstyle would suit you more link (I know it lokks gay but that's cause the dude has those horible shades and lipstick...smh) or that one link
when you're done with that, stop looking, girls smell the desperate vibe like dog smells ham, just do your usual thing, errands, school, chores etc and when you find yourself talking with a girl for more than 3 mins, ask for her number.