The vibe that I get from females is that, they're always trying to look better than one another. I've had experiences where I would be in a mirror and a female will get in front of me and make this whole scene; looking at her butt, flipping her hair and going all out. Also, when I admire a girls' beauty and try to say "hello" to her, they're so stuck on themselves that they prefer not to respond to me. Even when I'm walking past a female and I'm feeling great, her strut becomes a lot more aggressive to show off her confidence. I'm getting agitated with females. We all have different forms of beauty, so why the competition?
Many females are just so insecure and don't know how to accept what they have physically. Then they allow that insecurity to make them make an ass out of themselves by coming off as a rude b*tch.
If you are truly confident, you don't have to force an aggressive strut. You don't have to be a b*tch and obsess over your physical beauty in the mirror, after you shame mommy's hometraining and rudely get in front of someone. True confidence is not something you have to try doing. Also, true confidence doesn't come from the outside in, it comes from the inside out. It starts with who you are and what you can contribute, not how great make-up looks on you or how long you can get your hair to grow.
There's this quote by Shakespeare "We all will laugh at gilded butterflies"
'Gidled' means to cover with a layer of gold or to give a deceptively attractive appearance to. A butterfly that is already beautiful doesn't need to paint it’s self gold because it's naturally beautiful. It's the same concept for those bitches who add all of this fake sh*t to build their "deceptive attractiveness" but in actual reality, they have nasty fckn attitudes and have little if any social grace.
With girls like that, you just have to look at them and smile because you are not like them and because you are not like them, you will always have an upper hand with men, with friends, and with life in general :)
Yeah it's just there own insecurity seeping though, especially when you compliment them and they act all rude. God I hate b!tches like that, when that happens I loudly take the compliment a back lol as for the competition thing I myself fall prey to that. (I am an insecure monster lol) I don't know what it is about crazy hot girls that make me want to kill myself. But that's how I feel. But I try not to show it or be rude about it.
yes, in our society, women are taught to be in competition with each other. looks are especially seen as important. it can be annoying, but it's also not surprising. I blame the media and society in general. lol
Women are raised to be insecure and to compete with each other. They are raised to value themselves based on looks and love they get from guys, and not based on their personalities and accomplishments. So they see other girls as competition and they don't want them to be prettier or to get more attention from guys.
But having said all that, my friends and I are nothing like that. We support each other, encourage each other, there's no bitchiness or competition at all. I'm genuinely kind to other women and they usually respond in the same fashion.
I've seen it too. Not so much among my group of friends (I don't think I'd be friends with many people like that), but I have seen it. My personal favorite example of this behavior is the female who puts up a profile picture of herself looking extra attractive while her friend stands beside her looking bad... I'm just like, ugh, you know exactly what you're doing when you put that photo up and that's just mean!
I think the people who say it's the media and insecurity are correct, but I think it must be a combination of these two. It's depressing, why can't we all get along? And start acting how we want to please ourselves not to please other women/society? I don't wear makeup beyond some concealer and I know I get stares from other females for not meeting feminine beauty ideals and it sucks! But I feel I am pretty as I am and I don't need makeup for other girls to like me. I get boyfriends as it is so why change?
I don't see this much in the women I'm around, but I've seen it BEFORE, and I think it's pretty obvious that the media pits us against each other by making our "ultimate goal" to be the most attractive woman, inevitably meaning you have to compete against everyone else. We do all have different forms of beauty, but according to the media, there is only one.
omg it pisses me off! usually the really competitive girls are the insecure ones. when I was younger I wasn't so confident but as I got older I grew into my skin and I realized that while I am not the next VS angel I am fairly attractive, definitely enough that I can attract men and that's all I care about.
some of my friends are competitive like this, always bragging about guys' attention. I know these are insecure girls and sometimes I feel targeted but I know I am just as good looking as they are and they are just insecure. I happen to not be insecure about how I look, doesn't mean I think I am perfect. I just accept my strengths and weaknesses and overall I am satisfied with myself most days and I don't try to compete with other girls.
i do agree that many girls are so competitive though. but it seems like a lot of them are competitive in different ways like they brag and boast abotu male attention etc
All of my friends are really chilled out and cool, so I don't know why you're having this experience with all the females you're encountering. I feel like you're probably filtering your perception of normal events to fit some kind of pre-conceived notion, honestly.