I look pretty good, though I am a bbw, and no not showing a pic. I do get told I look like Beckett from Castle though, just bigger obs. And I cannot get a man no matter how hard I try. All my guy friends think I am awesome so what gives?
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Well, I hate to say this, but in spite of all the "I don't like skinny chicks" most men simply do want skinny women anyway. Your size is working against you. Not saying that's right or fair, given my user name, I know how it feels. And I admit I'm guilty of this too, I have my size limits, even if she has a very pretty face (and the actress who plays Becker is very pretty) and an awesome kickass personality, if she is too big, I just cannot feel any attraction. But in fairness if a woman I likes doesn't want to date me because she don't find me attractive, I respect her for that.
You also said you try hard, perhaps that's not helping. When someone says they try hard to get a man or woman, the first thing that comes to my mind is desperation. Don't "try" to find a man, just be the awesome woman you are, socialize, talk to people. You are at the age where most men don't make as big deal about size, and I've seen plenty of BBWs with guys, so if you don't stress over it, you'll get yourself a GOOD man.1
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