Girl keeps saying I look skinnier every time I see her....

I'm a pretty lean muscular guy. Every time I see this girl she would comment on how much skinnier I've gotten. she's hard to read, but do you think she is flirting in her own way or just commenting on what she sees?



Most Helpful Girl

  • Commenting on a guy's weight is flirting?

    What? really?

    I've never heard that one before, seems more like an observation.

    Next time she says you're skinny say "well then as I'm HAWT" that way you'll see her reaction, agrees disagrees, blushes, whatever..

    • well my point is that she is commenting about my appearance anytime she sees me. I know in girl world skinny is awesome, so I was thinking maybe she was using that logic to subtlely flirt but just a stupid man's guess. Any other signs I should be looking for? We work together so I really don't want to make a wrong move.

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    • Some days she would do all of those, but some days she just ignores me. Kind of a hot and cold thing. Can't figure this girl out.

    • If she does all of that then yes that's a clear sign she's interested in you. The hot and cold thing isn't something new either some girls do it because they want to know if their crush is effected by them ignoring the crush. I'm actually guilty of do its as if saying (If I ignore him, will he notice it, will he be upset, will he try to talk to me) so basically its to get a reaction from the guy. You should talk to her when she's "trying" to ignore you :)

What Girls Said 5

  • If she's into skinny guys then she probably is flirting. Otherwise she might just be observing.

  • That is kind of a odd way to flirt, is it possible that she is being sarcastic? I think maybe she is poking fun at you and it's flirting.

  • I see this as the same as a guy saying "you look chubby" to his girl friend... you can change for her or tell her to take it of leave it!

  • well my ex boyfriend was skinnier every time I saw him...and I was actually just worried about his health...turns out his meds make him annorexic ...and it broke my heart and I tried helping him but he said he liked the way he looked and didn't want to change. I later broke up with him because I started to look more manly then him..and I couldn't take it anymore.


What Guys Said 4

  • Just commenting, imao. She'd say soething a little warmer if she were flirting. Something like how muscular yu are, or how you are in such good shape...

  • Hmmm...make sure your muscles aren't going through atropy. Otherwise that's a little weird lol.

    But I'm sure she's flirting, girls rarely commment or compliment guys, so when they do it's usually because they are interested.

  • You should say "No. That's just you getting fatter." Chicks dig playful banter.

    Anyway, I can't tell if that means anything substantial or that she has nothing else to begin a conversation with.

  • I had something similar, when a girl I met, I know her pretty well etc., she wrote to me that I should look for a woman like that - in the picture was some short 150+ kg woman and to do with her - another picture was even worse.("n action") To me that was utter disgusting thing, but I don't know if she was making fun of me because before she never even wrote anything to me.

    I think she's making a bit fun of you, maybe you should ask her how to get "less skinny" xD or if she's gonna help you with it :D ofc if she can cook well, to make a bit fun of her - something along those lines. It is very hard trying to understand what it means because it clearly isn't what she means.