As said above^: Is it an old thing like chivalry to always have a guy come up to the girl?
Guys, What do you think of girls that do this?
I personally always wait, I'm kind of a wall flower, and I'm shy too.
Girls, do you wait or just take them on?
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Guys are approaching girls less and less for a variety of reasons. I can give plenty of reasons based on each scenario.
Guys won't approach at a bar unless it's for a one night stand.
Guys won't approach at a gym because it will seem like he just likes her in a physical sense and/or the girl would be uncomfortable being sweaty and all.
Guys won't approach during school because she may be too wrapped up in a book or on the way to another class leaving no time to talk.
The main issue is that there is an approach being made with absolutely no information about the other person and going by no other notion than her physical appearance.
My main reason I haven't struck up a conversation with a girl in a long time: She's always taken. It gets tiring to go through conversation after conversation with someone just to find out she's taken. Plus, many girls don't like admitting they're single. Many girls are insecure about it and feel like there is something wrong with them for being single. So it's not like I can just go up to a random girl and ask "Hey are you single?" I would imagine that being very awkward.
Also think about being with someone, do you want to be constantly getting approached when taken? So the guy is gonna have to hope that the girl don't have an angry boyfriend who gets jealous easily. Lots of girls for whatever reason stay with controlling and aggressive boyfriends which can make for some very hostile issues should her girl get hit on.
Honestly it's better off for the girl to do approaching these days. More and more guys are getting fed up with approaching girls just to find out they're never interested.0