I catch her looking at me and she makes à funny face
She looks into my eyes when we talk
She laughs all the time when we are together
She wants me to join her in events(some)
We talk 5 days à week
She flirts à lot in general but more with me
People think we are together
every time I ask her to see à movie or catch à show she is either busy or talks around it.
I know she's been hurt à few times before
Any ideas here?
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Oftentimes, girls ask this way because 1) she believes you are so desaparate to get her, 2) she wants more than dates or being her boyfriend, (meaning she wants to kill where you will do anything anything she asks for her such as paying for all days, movies, rides, and fun things, 3) she has someone on the side she does not want you to find out, 5) and she enjoys the self-agrandising sense of being wanted and chased. I think she read The 48 Laws of Power or The Art of Seduction. She wants to toture you and put your knees to the ground. Often she would tell her friends how desaparate you are to get her but she does not appreciate either your look or that she wants a man better than you simply to enhance her msguided self-stem. Woman do this all the time, even married ones because women love the sense of being liked, chased, and it makes them gain self-confidence.
THus, you need to make yourself busy for at least 2 weeks. When she texts or calls just text (busy). If she says, "what are you busy about"? Say to her " I am with friend of mine who came to the city/or town from another place" or study, looking for a job, or just hanging out with friends. Make up some wild stories of things you saw and how busy you are. Limit the times you talk to her. Make yourself unavailable. For example, when she calls out of a sudden, greet her and say "Can I call in a minute". Hang up and do not call her back. Tell her you got busy. Finally but the least, do not reveal much of the things you do, will do. The more you appear change and wild, the better you make her interesting in you. If she wants you, she would come down and tell you, "hey tell me what happen, we were good friends and have talking to each other but you seem to be changing lately. Or simply tell her you met a cute girl at the mall and asked her number that you going to take her for a date. Then two or three days don't call her because that means you got the one! She will be like, " oh my god, he is leaving me! I need to get him before he is taken!". Play mind games! And good lucky.0