I'm 19 , girls hate to look at me because I'm ugly ( not fat ) , I've never had a girlfriend , and suicidal thoughts are starting to hit me , no matter how hard I try to block them out , every girl rejects me based on the fact that I'm ugly ( some of them even told me that , and I'm not going after the good looking ones) . All my friends and their girlfriends make fun of me because I'm pathetic . what should I do ?
Most Helpful Guy
They make fun of you... are they even your friends? Makes me wonder how they'd react if they saw this. Maybe they just think it's ball busting... well if you've got a best friend from the group you can confide in about how much you are uncool with their attitudes then that could help.
Also, try and find new friends might be an idea. I dunno' I think these guys sound like arrogant scum. For real. There are people out there who don't think that that is an okay way to be to their 'friends'.
But hey, I see some real weird looking guys with girls, even sometimes with hot girls, so y'know to be honest, girls rejecting you are probably just using the "ugly" as an excuse, in many cases, because actually, maybe you have a negative energy, or your poor self esteem is radiating or some such.
So yeah, maybe the answer is, as absurd and paradoxical as this is, is to be happier. I know it's a stupid answer right. I'm in the same boots... apparently I gotta' be happier but the reason I'm not happy is because I'm lacking what I need to be happy to get! HAHA the absurdity of life! ...yes you ain't alone and dang I, apparently, am handsome. See so that's what I'm saying about that there's something deeper it doesn't boil down to looks. Energy and such, and confidence. In my case it's because I'm socially retarded.
No suicide though. It's incredibly stupid, selfish and ungrateful. Sometimes I get like "fuc- k it I'm sick of life gosh darn what's the point even being alive, being alive is getting fuc- king tiresome fuc- k I'd be better off dead just fuc- k maybe I should just die" but no no no suicide. If you really think, like what I just said, so much, you could just start doing loads of crazy dangerous things for fun and y'know then maybe you'll get lucky and die right? ha ha sorry for being callous I'm just... well dang I suppose I'm just an idiot. But dang you start doing crazy $hit it might make you happier cos' of the thrill and fun and at the same time you'll be nearly dying - win win. See I'm that crazy, that I've actually thought all this over in my head. I'm terrified of heights though so that cancels out loads of the stuff I could do.
Oh! You could join the armed forces or have a go at being a fire fighter (I'm seriously considering this myself), or a cop, a SWAT even. Would probably end up improving your life dramatically too and then you'd get to the point when you actually DON'T want to die and then typically enough... that's when you do... well that'd be my luck anyway.
Again sorry for being so blunt and such but hey I'm just being totally honest right. Oh but let me reiterate - please do not do yourself in. That's wrong on so many levels. Nobody should do that. It's sad is what it is. Nobody should do that.2