I don't judge my own looks, I'm 6'7 and I have a rather sky high IQ which is what is most notable about me even if you ask someone that barely knows me. So I suppose I'd just like to know why I attract a lot of attention from females however they back off at any debate of anything. Any tips, as I am open to anything. Also, women approach me at clubs if I look like I have been drinking quite a bit to the point where it's annoying, these are women that don't know who I am. Anyone?
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When you use your intelligence to dominate a conversation, or to "prove yourself" unnecessarily, it can make any continuation of said conversation a bit daunting. Your IQ sets you apart from most other people but, despite your differences, it's important to focus on the things you have in common. Just because you're smart doesn't mean that every conversation has to be a testimony to your MENSA membership. That being said, if you find unintelligence annoying, avoid trying to meet women in clubs -- find somewhere that like-minded individuals would be more easily approachable... Not to say that just because you're smart, you're inclined to spend all of your time in a library. But clubs attract such a wide variety of people that it's hard to single out the ones to whom you might relate. If you like rock climbing, approach girls at an indoor rock climbing facility, you know? Then you can start out by talking about subjects that put you on equal playing fields, and get to understand and appreciate one another that way before delving into deeper intellectual conversations. I'm sure that your IQ might be intimidating to people if you insist on making it a focal point when you first meet them. But I'm also quite sure that there are qualities which you don't possess, and that you might find equally intimidating when trying to approach new people. Don't use your strength as a defence... Trust me -- based on what I know about you, we're a lot alike.6