say he looks at me and I don't smile or anything, just give like a blank stare. They say to smile & look friendly if you want to meet more guys... but what if I just don't feel like smiling or why do I have to be the one to make a first move?
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I would think she doesn't like me, or hates something about, in which case it's a signal for me not to get near her and the least thing to do is talk to her. Or a lot is on her mind and she's stressed because of that, not really seeing what's around her, in which case I would be very cautious as well. Maybe she's even angry or something, and it's a terrible moment to go talk to her.
Smiling is not considered a first move, it's not a move at all. An actual move is when you go approach the guy and initiate a conversation. You smiling is just being friendly and showing some interest. When you smile at people you comfort them, and you send a signal that it's okay to approach you, talk to you. You appear more open to others.0