Is it our appearance that overrides the "attitude problem", because the black women I know do not have one, but we have our features. We have really pudgy noses, dark skin, coiled hair, and thicker bodies, quite curvy infact. The thing is, is that really why men do not like us and our marriage rate is low with all races of men? I have been flat ironing and growing my hair long, lightening my skin with whitening supplements like ivory caps, straightening my nose ..lol at home with noseright, and dieting fast but making sure that my butt disappears...the thing is I see my friends not dating or even getting married. Now if you talk about skull shape which is something that we can't change ...well I have seen white women who loook like coco and still get men.
I just think that is it is an look issue maybe we could just change it ...an wa la. I have ben getting stares more since by new look, but why are men like that, probably the lighter she is, the less ugly or embarrassing she would look.
What is your reason and please answer with no shame, but not verbally abusive.
We also have a black man shortage maybe it is how we look?
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Yes, people have those "stares" at blk women because of their appearance. Most people put a lot of stereotype when every they see a blk. Some even laughs for no reason at all. I don't know what's wrong with those people but blk are always judged because of their appearance.0