So I'm one of those girls that shops at hottopic & wears chain pants, stud wrist cuffs, lots of black, lots of eyeliner, skateshoes, loose or tight shirts with skulls, red and black designs, etc.
So many times I've been told by guys && friends "you're pretty but you're style kind of scares away guys" ---why is this?
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Most guys would think you were trying to prove a point by dressing only in one style, a kind that is considered as you yourself put it alternative. Lots of guys would assume you would only/or prefer to go out with guys who are more like you. So to be honest I don't think I could see myself going out with a girl in full goth (or whatever it is) dress all the time. It would just look strange (as a couple I mean). Unfortunately if you dress in a way people consider different to the norm then you will be looked at differently. Just the way it is.0