Yesterday I had to have a full look over in the nude by my dermatologist. I wasn't expecting it and I was mortified. All I could think of was how ugly my body is and how gross I must look. In reality I know I'm thin at 127lbs and 5'8. there's nothing strikingly horrible about my body but I hateeee being in any state of undress in front of people. Is that normal?
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What a person considers "normal" depends on the input he or she gets from family, friends, society, etc. In some cultures, nudity is the norm, in others nudity is completely unacceptable. "Normal" for most people falls somewhere between the extremes. Some people are so far to an extreme that they will not even allow their spouses to see them naked. Others have no problem appearing nude in acceptable public places, like nude beaches. Whatever works for you (and your spouse when you marry) should be just fine, except you should probably work on being more comfortable nude in front of your doctor. If you are overly modest, you have no need to show your body to the public. But your doctor will need to see you in different stages of undress at times.
BUT - you do seem to have issues with accepting your body. You say that there is nothing strikingly horrible about your body, yet you also say that you think your body is ugly and it looks gross. I really doubt that. From the sounds of things, you have bad thoughts about your body, but it is actually fine. Chances are it is average or maybe better than average. I hope that you can learn to accept that your body is fine and be comfortable with it.0