im ugly , I'm not a funny guy, I'm shy , I have ugly facial structure , I work out and that still makes me ugly , I spend hours at therapy and I'm still clinically depressed , I take so antidepressants . I never had a girlfriend nor a female friend . I spend money on good clothes yet I'm still ugly . I get angry at couples because I know I can never experience theyre happiness . No girl ever wants to talk to me , every girl I try to talk to ignores me . I've never had standards , I just want a female to like me behind my ugly face or be desperate enough to settle for the bottom of society , the people who don't deserve to live , me .
Why should I go on living when I know I will never be loved , and why should other people suffer from looking at my ugliness ?
Personality dosnt matter unless the guy is good looking.
women like confidence is as flawed junk science as 1+1=J
Ive been told to kill myself because I'm never going to get a girlfriend and its been 19 years and they are right.
I have a few humane methods of ending it , and attaching a letter with hopes that if I get on a news channel , females would see what theyre shallowness has lead to .
But that is till when I turn 20 , but untill then , I'm crying everyday now , will I ever get a girl to like me ?
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Whatever people say about you are only true if you let yourself to believe such. Are you seriously just going to live a life trying to please others? So what if others say you're ugly? Why believe that and let your life be miserable?
Whoever said that you go kill yourself must be out of his mind. Ending life for something as shallow as this is not worth it. To tell you, I'm 20 and never had a boyfriend. No relationship whatsoever even just casual dating or something. Worst is, I'm always compared at with my cousin who already has a boyfriend. But, honestly, I don't care. Why should I? It's not like the end of the world if I don't have relationship. I find joy in the company of my friends, family and God. I believe everything happens at the right time. You just got to wait.
You've got to start having more confidence in yourself. What they say isn't important as long as you feel good about yourself. You are handsome, believe me. I've also felt so ugly before since no one ever said they liked me. But you what, I realized that all that matters really is not what others say. I don't need others to tell me I'm pretty. I just got to believe in myself that I am. After I did that, I've had a couple of people in college say I'm cute. Whatever you feel inside, I believes it channels on the outside.
God created you in His image. Everyone is pretty and handsome. We've just got to wait until someone sees us that way :) but I'm not worrying too much about that. If I end up not getting married, that's fine. As long as I am happy doing the things I love and know that my life is being spent well, I'm already very contented.
Life is too precious to end like this. Think how blessed you are that you're given this chance to enjoy life. Go to a hospital and visit cancer patients or critically ill people. You'll know what I'm talking about. They would gladly do whatever it takes to add a few days into their life.0
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