I have a Question for guys?

Do Guys mainly judge a girl on how their body looks or what on the inside?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Your body is the first thing we see, so that counts for a lot. We don't "see" your personality at first glance. If we think you're attractive enough (most guys date average looking girls, as most guys are average looking also), we'll try to get to know your personality better.

    The good news is that a girl doesn't need to be a model to be attractive. A happy, energetic, average looking girl will receive far more attention that an extremely beautiful one that is stuck up. In fact, often most guys are afraid of very beautiful women and most of them don't approach them.

    Being average in terms of looks can be a benefit as long as you work hard to make sure your inside is drop-dead beautiful. All but the most shallow of guys won't put up with a pretty face in the long run if the girl causes too much drama or is self-centered.

    Both average and beautiful looking girls need to make sure their personality is honest, warm and caring to have men approach. We'll approach both types, as long as we feel she isn't a stone cold ice queen. In fact, even a girl with model looks and a good personality will often get approached far less than average girl with a great smile and laugh. If you send good vibes, men will notice, regardless of your looks.

    At the same time, focus on your best points, regardless of what your looks are and make minor improvements. It never hurts to always look your best when hoping to attract a little male attention. You need balance on both the inside and out to land a guy. Remember, don't seek perfection, just focus on improvement of both sides and you'll do just fine.

    A killer smile and laugh will always attract attention, regardless of what the rest of your body looks like. Also, our perception of your outer beauty is also affected on how you view yourself and carry your state of mind. If you believe you are beautiful and have a great body, the confidence will show. We pick up on these things! :)

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What Guys Said 2

  • Obviously men are physically attracted, it's like a natural instinct. But some and most of us like me do look beyond a girls body and love their personality.

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  • Both. Guys look at a girl's personality and a girl's looks.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Both. What's on the inside matters, but no guy ever crossed the room to talk to a girl because she had a great personality. Looks and body attract the guy but what's inside keeps him.

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