a couple years back I really liked her and in the course of those few years her style has gradually changed. personally I find it highly unattractive.
I know that someones style is a big part of their identity, however, it makes all the difference between asking her out or not.
It probably shouldn't, matter but it does.
I need some advice on what to do.
Thank you for your time
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It really depends. What you find highly unattractive is what some of us would love. So you are probably going to have to be more specific.
Though, I do understand you though, style is a pretty big factor. Everyone has their own standards and some people just want those who care or share the same trends. It's difficult to be with someone who you find unappealing or doesn't share interest in something you consider an important part of your life. If it was a habit, that's different, they aren't something that you see all the time.
It's like someone who's sweet, awesome, and pretty but they are awful in bed. It really sucks because you like them but sadly, this is a 'oh-no-no' you can't let go. It's not that you or they are bad people, it's just something you deal with.
Unless she wants to change or shows interest in having an eclectic style, then don't. I have a bunch of friends, usually girls, who buys clothing for their significant other because it's what they think is in good taste. The guys also are open or share that interest too.
Truth and reality are harsh and those who can't accept it just deem those who do as jerks. Maybe you are like many who do not settle? As long as you aren't toying with another human I don't think not asking her out would be a d*** move because of her fashion choices.
lol most of this is ramble but I think it gets my point across.0