help..my head hurts..lol...ok I am big..i feel big and I am ready to meet my son.. but my head hurts from not knowing if snipping him is best thing 2 do? my husband wants it..i want it, but why..because I think snipped boys look nicer? am I wrong to want it because I think it will look good? we hav studyed the internet, looked at many pics, read medical info and my thinking is, baby boy doesn't need it..it will be fine left alone( unless prob later) but still I want him cut. our hospital only use gomco clamp. I worry this will cut him very tight? I come here and hope some other moms who cut or not can chat and share their feeling and story. wot did you do and would you change anything? pls message me to talk private..
thanx and take care :)
i am shy to tell why I want my baby to hav it but I want other people answer honest... first I like his more because the head look cute and clean. I like how it soft and dry and not hav same smell as skin. also like how wen him big it be smooth and the head not under sumthing. wen we study more on internet I like all the snip more and it turn me on... I like how all cut differnt and some hav bigger scar...i see video and pic of baby getting snip and I pity them.
I think it a lot and that make me feel bad :(... but after I see it heal I like how it looks (embarrassed)
young boy or old man after snip I like how them look... I think the head and were the skin snipped look neat and better than if skin go over. I turn on wen think how them thing had the skin snipped off and after it open and can see the line where the cut happen if them hard or how the skin just be around the end of head if small.
if honest I would like if thailand cut all boy same filipine or aussie do. now I see all thai man or young boy and like 2 think them all hav cut.. make me turned on ... I think I feel guilty if snip my baby..cause I know I like cut more. I want to see him hav a nice look like other boy pics I see and I like if think he not same other boy here...i want other frend and family to see how he look and how they b surprised wen see his cut thing.
thank you for all that answer for me. sorry I not answer a lot. I wanted to wait until my son was born. now he is 2 weeks old and we choose that he be circumcised one week ago. I asked my husband to choose because I was scared and worry. everything OK now and I think we decide a good choice to circumcise him. I watch the doctor operate and I feel sad when he cry a little bit but now its OK and look neat. if anyone want to know or ask us pls just ask and not be shy.i answer true and hope help you 2 :)
Hey go for what you and your husband want not people on gag. If I have a son he will be snipped. My guy and I both agree it's cleaner and better looking. There are also benefits to being circumcised so I'm all for it
Simple answer - DON'T DO IT! It's HIS body so it should be HIS choice!
Long answer - Circumcision in America is a scam designed to ensure corrupt doctors get rich quick by selling infants foreskns to pharmaceutical, biomedical and even cosmetics companies for use in production of artificial skin and even high-end moisturisers. It has b****r all to do with health benefits! His penis will be fine as long as it is left alone, he will not be the only boy growing up intact and trust me, with all that sensitive tissue left in place he will thank you for it in future as when he has sex he will be able to feel EVERYTHING!
The potential 'risks' of leaving him intact are tiny and can easily be sorted later in life without resorting to invasive surgery - MILLIONS of boys around the world grow up intact without any problems at all. Just simply keeping it clean is all the maintenance it'll ever need to ensure a lifetime no complications whatsoever. Circumcising a boy for purely cosmetic reasons is unethical, an abuse of his human right to an intact body and could potentially do more harm than good. In the USA more than 200 baby boys DIE every year due to complications from circumcision. That's 200+ boys too many! That's 200+ boys who would otherwise have grown up to enjoy long and healthy lives were it not for the despicable mutilation forced upon them by their 'loving' parents egged on by a doctor from a health insurance corporation that covets your son's flesh so that they can sell it for a profit to a cosmetics firm AND make you pay for it!
I am a guy and can tell you that I am glad my mum had me done when I was born, a few guys I know had it done later in life and said it was painful for them as they would have erections and that would be uncomfortable, but when they healed they said it was much better being done. Don't worry about your boy he won't remember it as he will be too young to know. And I have seen pics of snipped and unsnipped, and I think snipped is much better looking, so have my girlfriends too.
When or if I have a boy he will be circumcised for sure. Stop over thinking it and don't sweat what the weirdo's say
I hate the fact that I am cut. I have had a lot of problems because of it. I can not respect or forgive anyone that would do something that evil. Telling a person that just because they were born a particular gender that they were born wrong, and didn't even have a right to their own body.
My mom told me she had nightmares about it when she had my brother because she was so nervous. But she ultimately decided to get him cut, and she feels she made the right choice. She told me she had an uncle who had to get cut as an adult and he was miserable and in so much pain. That's why it's not a good idea to wait and "let the boy decide for himself."
In the end, it's up to you and your husband. Just know that it's normal for moms to be apprehensive.
Well I will do it for health reasons. It can get funky under there (if he's not you have to pull it back and clean EVERY diaper change). Also he can get infected. And if there is a medical reason to do it when he's older it can take up to month to recover.